I love and hate this song for 2 reasons:
1. It’s good… Really good
2. The messages pisses me off!
Don’t you know that when chicks make songs like this about dudes it gives the lame you miss serious leverage for a comeback? This is why men will always have the upper hand when it comes to this shit.
I’ll admit I’m soft when it comes to ladies I really like, so I might be an exception to the rule… I cave most of the time when the women is someone I feel is special… The others… Once it’s over for me, it usually means it’s over. I can say I fell hard 2x in my life and H.A.T.E.U. could have meant something to me if Usher or Ne-Yo sang it…
See, our hearts beat still when we think we’re in love. We go into what I like to call a “comma.” You’re at peace, content and most of all comfortable with who you’re with even if the situation is fucked. You “sleep” on the problems… I’ve been there and begged to stay there at one point in my life… I was about to put a ring on it, but when the moment came; I pulled away because to be honest… That shit was so wrong for me.
Now, I’m back to normal ME… That dude who’s not scared to call a bitch a bitch… The guy who’s charming, yet offensively witty… That guy who loves to make you laugh, but wants to laugh too… The man who will give it all just to be with the right one no matter how long it will take…
Patience… I don’t see women as challenges anymore. I’ve been through my share of the good and the bad. The regular shit is there. No matter how fly a chick is, they’re all pretty much the same. So I can’t say I H.A.T.E any of U in particular that I’ve ran though anymore because the best is still out there and she’s the reason I’m not concerned with you other bitches.
She’s my drive, my passion, my heart… What I’ve been looking for my whole life… She’s the one who will hold me down when ever I need it… She’s the one who’s concerned when she thinks something wrong… She embodies everything good in me and she’s more like me then anyone I know. She inspires me. Yep… She exists and I hope our hearts cross paths one day so I can laugh at songs like H.A.T.E.U. instead of relate to them.
For now I writing this shit to build a wall against time because it’s the ultimate pipe dream to want all that when the cards are stacked against you… So rather than be bitter or sad; I make up these little blogs and shit to entertain and hope that at the end of the day that some of this stuff I write does matter to someone.
And the response I get sometimes makes me feel that being open is worth it sometimes. Thank you 🙂
D/L: ===> Mariah Carey – H.A.T.E.U.
– H Diddy Blogger… Out