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Here is the theatrical trailer for the latest action movie Takers starring Hip Hop & R&B stars Tip “T.I.” Harris & Chris Brown and also staring Idris Elba, Matt Dillon, Zoe Saldana, Michael Ealy, Paul Walker, Jay Hernandez & Hayden Christensen.

Takers is in Theater February 26, 2010

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I loved these movies growing up… It explains a lot don’t it… 😉

Enjoy the trailer! 🙂

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Peace to @jcrillz & the  HipHopIsCoolAgain Blog

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Before I go in I have to pretty much say thanks for all the love and recognition through facebook, myspace and of course the regular web. Been blogging for a little over a month now and it’s actually been a great place for me to vent, to share thoughts and feelings… So like all bloggers say, “LEAVE  COMMENTS!” There’s a little link at the bottom to do it! 🙂

I wrote this NEEDY CHICKS blog because… Shit, I can and it’s something my niggas & I talk about all the time, so I couldn’t hold back… I had to spill!

ENJOY!

About 6-7 years ago Destiny’s Child came out with a song called “Independent Woman” and HBO hit us in the head with Sex & the City… Women across the globe were on it and saying, “F a man! I can do it myself and be happy, single and FREE!”

It kinda capped off the whole “Women’s Liberation” movement that started in the 60’s & 70’s and continued on till the 90’s when chicks started becoming CEO’s and getting money like a man would.

BUT… Like that song fell off the Billboard charts and Sex & The City got cancelled; The movement stopped moving too…  And a few years later you have Destiny’s Child coming back singing a song called “Cater To You” all about rubbing a man’s feet and doing up his doo rags and Carry Bradshaw melting down when Mr. Big leaves her at the alter (TOTAL NEEDY CHICK MOMENT) in the Sex & The City Movie in 2008 (Thanks for fact checking KJ).

Now this bringing me back to this notion of “INDEPENDENCE” that seems to be none existence now…

Why are women going back to the role of the lowly housewife? Is Desperate Housewives the blueprint for modern chicks?

Did the G.W. Bush Era fuck up women’s money and they have to rely on men again?

Or are women just realizing that this is the way it’s suppose to be because our “primitive human nature” gets the best of us at the end of the day?

Who actually knows…

I do know (now) that through my experience with NEEDY CHICKS that I never realized the most INDEPENDENT WOMEN I was with I played out. Or did they play me or worse, did I play myself by not seeing their potential? Prolly a little of all that… :-/ You really don’t see it till you compare each situation, fellas…

Now here’s the main reasons NEEDY CHICKS are the way they are: 

1. Low self-esteem… A chick with low self-esteem is your classic NEEDY CHICK. No swag, no heart and no clue. Easy to take advantage of and most of the time they get left out in the cold…

2. Sex addicts or virgins… Girls who want dick usually don’t get done right and girls who are saving it for one dick usually don’t get “done right” at all… LITERALLY

3. Attention… We all see the “drama queen” that says anything to get a reaction from her man…

3. Money… No need to explain, but I will… When a chick gets comfortable (with you trickin’ on her) and you say, “Baby… we should get married soon…” PAUSE! Next thing you know shorty put her 2 weeks notice in at work and she ain’t keeping herself as fly as she used too anymore and you still courting and paying for her shit and ya’ll ain’t even married yet…  DAAM that NEEDY CHICK got you doggy…  

4. Clinginess aka “Hyper-Companionship”… Enough said!

All things a NEEDY CHICK craves and wants and will (in most cases) settle with anyone who is willing give it to them.

What I’ve realized is that women in general are all in need of something, do to the “double standard.”  Society instills this in their head from birth; that women are to raise a family and settle (preferably) with someone from a particular social ($$$) and cultural background (you know, stick with your own kind) and men can do as they please.

Also, most of these NEEDY CHICKS are too weak to make up their own minds, so they always seek advice from their “men” rather than deal with issues head on, they turn to the person that is manipulating the situation the most… Which is not a good look because if you let the wrong man lead you, you’ll more than likely fall and if that man wants to lead himself over to another, then NEEDY CHICKS go COO COO BANANAS… (I’ve been there…) 

So yeah… NEEDY CHICKS… They’re everywhere.

Those miserable looking women you see carting around 3 ugly kids in the market… They are NEEDY CHICKS.

The women who leave their careers, friends and life on the strength that they “might” get married one day to that dude they’re with… NEEDY CHICKS

The women who give their men hell when those men have done everything for them… NEEDY CHICKS

The women who disregard their own self respect to become little more then someone who sucks you off to sleep and cooks you food… NEEDY CHICKS

I can go on , but you get it (I hope)…

It’s kinda sad to see women who are like this nowadays because the potential in them so far exceeds what they trade it all for and most of the time it’s a game of manipulation.

NEEDY CHICKS tend to see the “narrow bigger picture.” Meaning… They settle for the least to get what they NEED the most, which is… Well I don’t know, every NEEDY CHICK is different…

I do know, I don’t want a chick like that… NEVER EVER AGAIN

So to all the ladies reading this right now, keep in mind I might be talking about you or this might be comedy. Either way I hope the message rings clear… NEEDY CHICKS ARE LAME!!!

And if you do take something from this (like offense to it), maybe there is a problem there and you need to check yourself…

BUT! There’s always an exception to the rules and that’s LOVE… That shit might throw you off FELLAS, but that’s a whole other blog… LOVE is dangerous with a NEEDY CHICK because when you want out, they make it hard… Ya’ll seen the movies…

Then again there’s always the “ONE” shining example of a “GOOD WOMAN.”

***Miss Independent***

The chick that has it all, but is not ashamed to get it on her own. She sees the ring and cops it. That new Range with the ski rack, she’s in it and pays for it herself. House on the hill and vacations, she pays the mortgage and for first class seats! She doesn’t take herself too seriously, she’s fun and most of all FUNNY. I can’t forget about attractive, attentive and with a bit of attitude… SHE’S AWESOME!  

I like to call this woman LL (Don’t ask me why, just feel me on this). She’s a special person and that’s the type of chick I want…

So it’s fine to be NEEDY if that’s your thing, but for real, it’s 2008 and if you can’t see that there’s more to being happy than NEEDING SOMEONE/SOMETHING, then there’s no real hope for you…. NEEDY CHICK

SONG OF THE DAY ===> Ne-Yo ft. Fabolous & Jamie Foxx – She Got Her Own (Miss Independent Remix)

– H Diddy Blogger… Out.

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